I blocked a car park in December for about 30 seconds while I ran into a shop and dropped something off and ran out again. An old bloke gave me a gob-full when I got back to my car. He also YELLED at me YOU MUST BE SOMEONE REALLY SPECIAL IF YOU THINK YOU CAN PARK ANYWHERE YOU LIKE.


 


So I did a low, graceful, ballet type bow and waved at him like the Queen when I drove off ๐Ÿ˜›



 


He was right. But at least he didn't call you the dog word. He has manners.


 


PS I'm praying for Clair

Id wanna swear at the person too.... but in my area they'd probably punch me in the mouth or stab me! ๐Ÿ˜

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i personally avoid confrontation and would not have say anything to be honest because i would have been worried about the woman physically attacking me and hurting me and or the baby.  


 


sadly people are becoming more and more self centered and seem to think rules do not relate to them.  i would drive around a car park over and over rather then park someone in.  

Such is life.

i wasnt worried about her doing anything to me. She was to busy running to her car to move it. I think she was way more worried about me doing something to her.


 


 

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I probably would of sworn at the woman too.


 


I'm sick of being a pushover

*pepe
Community Member

yoohoo clair - we need more prayers in here. 


yoohoo clair - we need more prayers in here. 



clair is busy with her prayer list.....

You do not have to abuse another person.


 


WE are adults.


 


We can respond in an adult manner.


 


For example:


 


Woman comes running up saying sorry.


 


We could say "I've been standing here in the heat with my baby not knowing when you'd be back. I was starting to get very distressed".


 


This lets the other person know you are upset. You have used the "I" word and not the personally attacking "you" word.


 


The other person then has a chance to also act in an adult manner.


 


"Oh I'm sorry. It was selfish of me to think I wasn't inconveniencing you".


 


"I accept your apology".


 


 

*pepe
Community Member

oh puhleaze!!  :^O

Or you could act like a feral, teach your kids how to act like ferals and hope to God the next person you decide to attack doesn't think like you do because then you'll have to up the ante. Perhaps take a baseball bat with you next time just in case.


 


But then you might have to up the ante again.


 


Loaded gun anyone?