now how did I guess this would be an agr.===== thread

lol, then it wont matter what feedback the buyer leaves. The seller will either bribe them to change it, or ebay will remove it for them. I have never seen another seller whose negative feedback magically disappears.

Whatever you do, check here before leaving your neg, because it if it even slightly crosses the line into being against policy, it will be removed quicker than a flash.