I did not recieved refunds as iv  direct deposited deeerrrrr, as I did trust the system. Wether it was 1 transaction or 10 i did not recieve ,it is still THEFT and i should not be happy thankyou very much, wake up!!

It is theft. But I hardly think you can blame the eBay system when before you gave the seller the free gift, the eBay system would have warned you that doing so would be unsafe.

And which system? The one where eBay is an online selling venue, similar to a classified ad in a newspaper? Would you complain to the newspaper if you got ripped off by one of their advertisers?

I advocate not wasting money on registered for low-value items, dg, but I also wouldn't price myself out of the market by sending express. Especially when C&S is cheaper and safer. I contend that if it's urgent, don't buy online. Especially as you have no real idea of how soon it will actually be posted anyway.