thesoulyearns - I understand that,if I change my mind or I ordered the wrong stuff or wrong size I would expect to pay return postage but if the seller sends the wrong stuff why should I be forced to pay and be out of pocket.The seller advertised one item and sent another.

Yeah I know, you're out of pocket for the postage costs but the seller gets back their items. Maybe someone on here knows of a rule where the seller pays return postage for items that are significantly not as described.