digital ghost can u please tell me how buyers demand or dictate u leave feedback. I know we whinge on here about it but that doesn't count as sellers whinge on here about buyers. Do they contact the sellers and demand it. Maybe as I don't do things I hear some buyers do I am just not understanding where u guys are coming from.;)

 I can answer that.

(Don't quote me on the days - just go with the flow, ok?)

I had a buyer earlier in the week, 300 odd feedback already. They left me feedback indicating that they had received their item and were happy with it. I then left them feedback, as I had concluded the transaction was finished.

However, some glitch meant that the feedback didn't show up. I just figured it was a glitch and would fix itself, as I had definitely left feedback.

The very next day, I got a message from the buyer telling me "remember to leave me positive feedback as I have done for you".

I immediately went to leave them feedback, but I got the error message telling me I had already left FB for that item. I even rang eBay, and they told me that I had left feedback for that item, although none of us could see it - not even them.

The buyer contacted me again the next morning saying "where is my feedback, I left it for you, you could be courteous enough to leave it for me.

I told her that I had and was trying to and told her I had been in contact with eBay etc.

She responded

"well best you get back onto them today"

a few hours later, I got another message from them asking "have you sorted it out yet"?

*sigh*

all for a $9 sale.