You made the mistake of letting the seller convince you to wait until the time you can open a dispute with Ebay has passed, it is a common way for overseas sellers to scam inexperienced buyers. If an item is more then a week or so passed the delivery date then after contacting the seller for information and not getting a satisfactory answer you should open a dispute for item not received. Most overseas items are delivered within 4 weeks.

 

Your option now is to open a dispute with Paypal. 

Never let a seller put you off with excuses.

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