Ebay told me that I should have to wait 4 days for open unpaid item case to valid (ie give the "person" 4 days to pay) and then another 4 days to secure it, (unpaid item case) ie 8 days, in hinds sight I should done second chance - but there were a lot of calls to ebay, they said technically there could be 2 buyers if second chance offer and the first person came through....I dont know my head was spinning at the time and the person with second chance offer and never bought anything before so was not sure if that person knew how ebay worked either.....experience is the best teacher...

I should have cancelled that person's bid when I had the chance reading their reviews ...never again, where there is smoke there is fire... 🙂