i dont think i have put my opinion down yet  but i will .only asked what would you do as a seller 

9 hrs and still no explanation from Joe?

ok  here it is the answere , now i asked posters  what would you do as a seller , now some answered here some messaged me and so.

first it was my daughters small priced items  then my sons more pricer items,  the mood changed from just send it in 1 letter to free gifts better packaging and so and so. 

there is no real  answere to the question its an opinion as we are all diferent.

some people would say there is no such thing as free postage and in theory there right, we all know that the postage is added to the final price.

[this is what happened which i found as amazing and hohnest . my daughter came to me and said look at this dad . inside her envelope was her 3 items + $2.50 in coins plus a note saying , thanks for buying my items if i had sent these items to 3 diferent people i would have paid 3 lots of postage so i put your 3 items together and less expences i am giving you the difference of what it would of cost me , i just did not feel right keeping it  thank you bla bla bla .

now it was only $2.50 but it touched me.  and to be honest i would not think of that  on 3 small cheap items as a seller myself.

anyway all have a nice day  .......and remember there are nice kind people around.

what did you expect ,it shows honesty still excists   even for a small amount of money .

And yet you thought alienating every board member was worth it   

no  go thru the posts i never started anything , when i am am attacked i go back and attack , as i said nobody held anybodys arm to reply to a simple question ,all i asked was what you would do . as i was curious .