@joethenuts wrote:for a start i do and can not dictate who posts on this thread , i have just asked politely, i have a right to listen to who i want thank you.
I presume you meant "I do NOT and can not, dictate who posts on this thread , i have just asked politely, i have a right to listen to who i want thank you."
My response is ABSOLUTELY! You do have a right to listen to whoever you want, and I have a right to respond to whoever I want. Glad we got that straight. 
