I posted an item yesterday, the day it was bought and paid for. I received an email from the buyer today asking can I leave feedback. I said my feedback is given automatically once feedback is left, that way I know you have received your item.   Right or wrong thats the way I do it.

I just got another email saying "ok **bleep** head - I'd better receive it"

If I do receive a neg would I have grounds to have it removed?

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I'm just wondering what he had better receive-the parcel or the feedback.

The feedback, I presume.

He's being a bit **bleep** about the whole thing & quite rude into the bargain, but I'm guessing this is not exactly all about you, you are just the straw that broke this camel's back. He is obviously fed up with buying, giving feedback then never receiving any in return from a lot of the sellers.

And he figures he has paid & fulfilled all his part of the bargain, so why the delay.

Look, we all know exactly why & we know feedback is voluntary.

I am assuming the parcel must have been sent without any tracking, if feedback is the way a seller knows that a parcel has been received.

What I would suggest though is keep a daily eye on feedback and as soon as this man gives feedback, give feedback in return & (as long as everything has gone okay & he has given a nice positive comment & rating) say something nice. I'm not sure what, you can hardly say it has been a pleasure. Maybe extremely fast payment or something.