I had clicked on the 'in reply to' link and it showed the Opening Post at the top of my page, which is how it normally shows which post was being replied to.  So, when I posted I assumed that mummy was replying to the Opening Post.  It was only later that I saw that mccrae had also posted about forwarding the email to spoof@ebay.

These dragged up threads are a real pain.  Just have to read some of the posts on this thread to see how out of date it is.  Some posts here talk about 'if' eBay was to introduce a fee on postage.