This question may not relate directly to SM but I didn't want to start another thread.

Regarding prompting buyers to leave feedback after "about a month", is there any way we can change this? If a buyer hasn't left feedback, I'd rather not prompt them... if they wanted to, they probably would have left it already. I've looked about eBay's settings and can't find this feature anywhere. What has been your experience with the automatic follow-up prompting of feedback?