Yeah I know - When the buyer of my item (**bleep**ing Indian sounding name witha a feedback of 2) said they will pay I told them it's ok if they changed their mind. Now they've dropped of the face of the earth. I have since learned this is actually quite common (the seller staing it's ok if they no longer want it) but no the just **bleep**ing dissapear like a toad. **bleep** eBbayl, now I know why I left. I dont need this **bleep**.