I just looked up DHL eCommerce, and it seems this is only available to business customers, not the general public.  Is this correct?

As for your suggestion about "postage and handling", that sounds like a good idea.  The only issue that still remains with that is the "handling" charge will change depending on the final value of the item, so that's where the problem of buyers paying BEFORE I send an invoice becomes an issue... I guess most people wait though, so that's something.

There are times though, where the additional cost is quite high due to the fees.  For example, say I sold 2 cd's for $25 each, and sent overseas without tracking for $13.50, the fees would be $10.25 extra, but I guess I can try to explain it under "handling".

Thanks for your tips guys!  I really appreciate it