As far as I'm concerned, I've determined it aint worth the hassall and risking the negative so i just send through a mutual close, and request they accept it, so I get my final value fees.

what does piss me off still is the fact he waited 6 days, although my items are a bit higher in value.

So if I was you i'd be even more pissed off if i was in your position doing lower dollar higher turn over items.

but if I get a decent biding war on something real obscure and small market. and then the only competitor pulls out.