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@papermoon.lady wrote:

You could temporarily disable immediate payment if you trust a buyer. I once asked a seller (who had said she combined postage but also had IP enabled) when I noticed that after buying items they were not among my purchased items. Well, I didn't really know why this was happening at the time, but she understood and said she had disabled IP for the items I intended to buy, so I could buy them and she could send me an invoice for combined postage.

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You could temporarily disable immediate payment if you trust a buyer.

I can't! It's set at default - Payments managed by ebay.

The box below is unchecked "requires immediate payment for buy it now."

Which is invalid, doesn't work

When a buyer clicks my buy it nows, they are prompted to buy straight away!

It annoys me that, say this seller in the OP can adjust payments, a young account, where is I can't.  My other account has clocked up quite a few sales, yeah.. I only just recently cranked it up after many years, but still, 100% positive feedback etc.

Some buyers I was able to communicate with, so i'd send them a partial refund for a postage discount, but others just won't.

Well.. it is a hassle.