Oh for pete's sake. It's a child's toy. There is no buyer protection for a pick up item paid with paypal. He's paid. You've got the money, and the item. Let his friend pick it up, say thank you and stop alarming the OP with scammers around every corner. As if in 6 months he is going to say there was unauthorised use of his credit card. It makes perfect sense to me that he's a policeman, and he's buying a toy police car for his small son for Chrissy to be like Daddy.