Other members cannot refund you/give you money

BUT we certainly can help you

You have given out your email address on a public forum for every scammer who sees it to take advantage of

ANYONE who emails you CLAIMING to be eBay are LYING. eBay staff do NOT read here

Nobody but a scammer is going to contact you that way

I have asked a mod to remove it, but they usually take several hours to respond

This thread is almost ten years old, it is better to start your own thread which is about your own issue

You can contact eBay and *ask* if the will refund your fees

I don't like your chances (there is no special treatment for anyone, eBay do not care about a person's situation/circumstances/etc) so there is no point in me telling you otherwise and getting your hopes up, because they just don't

But you can try, just don't expect the outcome you want

You might get a nice CS staff who grants a one off/you got lucky refund