Firstly,  I didn't realise there were missing attachments when I listed the item. 

Secondly, I clearly  stated 'attachments as shown' with a photo of said attachments. 

Thirdly, if I don't sell something on ebay, they don't get a fee.  They already took their cut of my listing.  

Fourthly, if she hadn't launched into abuse I would have sent it to her for free.  Pays to be polite.