Note I didn't resort to emotive words like she did:  "disgusting" "your dirt" "will not tolerate your behaviour" "you have no morals", nor was it necessary to say that the item was 'dirty' when it wasn't.   I would have been happy to send the accessories her for free but now I just don't want to work it out at all.  Frankly I can't see what Ebay can do to me, they have to wait for me to sell something else to deduct it from my payout and given their extortionate fees these days it's not really worth it anyway.