Sorry, but scammer or not, the shipping address is simply NOT disclosed until after the payment is made.

There is no excuse for any seller to ever step away from correct procedure by electing to ship to a different address than the one provided by eBay.

So once more for the OP... if you check the order details, the shipping address won't appear until AFTER payment is made. Common sense dictates that you should NEVER ship anything before you have the shipping address.