(. i also find you have to hassle people. so to speak to leave feed back, i always send a msg a week after sale\postage to make sure people are happy

NO NO NO - Never hassle/ask/request any feedback, not ever. As a seller you take it as it comes, you get positive YAY - you get nothing, do not ask or you may get what you don't want. Please realise feedback is voluntary. Many sellers have it set to auto leave when left for them, some do it monthly, some not at all, this is the choice of the member. As for buyers, same applies, if a seller ever requested fb from me, I would leave nothing. If they requested more than once I would be sorely tempted to leave a neut.