I don't think you would find too many posters here who would tell a buyer too bad, blake; even the ones who are primarily sellers. We all want buyers to stay, not tell everybody they know how they got ripped off by an eBay seller. If it was paid for with Paypal the buyer will hopefully contact Paypal and point out they have buyer protection and that the Ombudsman would doubtless agree.

Did you report the parcel as lost, pan? What was AP's response?