Its linked to an issue arising in another thread mimi

Setting up listings and encouraging the same, to serve a purpose that a buyer is unable to pay for cash on pick up item via paypal or credit card without incurring excessive freight is  against ebays rules. 

Cash on pick up is only available for selected ebay categories.

Admonishing posters as some regular posters do, for allowing paypal payments for pick up items, when they are just operating within ebay rules, is also pretty off in my books too.

And all on the basis of credit card chargebacks which are not the norm.