Thank you all for your relevant thoughts, it certainly gets the old brain cells moving, trying to add to them and think of ways to outsmart them,when I say them I mean all of them I mentioned probably a waste of time but it keeps the oldtimers away for a while

I have however weighed up the pros and cons of allowing pickups and have decided the best way for me is not to allow pickups!!! However if someone emails me about it then I may allow pickup if they tell me how they intend to pay, I can then make an informed decision as to wether I will allow it or not based on their answer, and you all know what that will be

So thanks again, if anyone can come up with another way that is ebay/paypal legal a law unto themselves please let me know

Regards   Grandma