missed that update about value of item & $1.30 postage. In that case, I would probably bite the bullet & refund. Morally the buyer shouldnt have to, but it comes down to how much you value avoiding a Neg & again if the buyer paid with Paypal, they can do a chargeback anyway.  I'm a bit out of touch with selling & postage. I was a Powerseller for a few years, now mainly a buyer & if I do have anything of my own to sell, use Gumtree