Perhaps I should have told the whole story, I miscalculated the postage my fault  so I paid an extra $23.00 postage..... I offered refund but he wanted me to pay the postage to get it back to me as well,, then a negative...I was prepared to negotiate some sort of solution but he was to quick on the draw...

You paid $33 posting 2 DVDs????  You should be able to send them for $6 with C&S tracked satchel anywhere within Australia.