just to be clear, the pick up suburb was in the listing.  The buyer knew what suburb, but they wanted the full address.  To pick up over a 3 day period, at their convience.  But had paid with paypal so I needed proof they had picked up.

Thanks thecatspis, that's how i feel.  I used to read these forums years ago and I followed most of the people here and that was one advice most of the main forum members used to give, did you used to have a different user name?

The buyer has now left negative feedback using the other account.  I pulled the buyer details via eBay and this guy has the same mobile number listed on this account as the one he gave me.  I forwarded it onto eBay again.  I have no idea what more this guy needs to do before eBay will put a stop to it.  The buyers mother was a lovely old lady too, who said her son wouldn't hurt a fly, so I have no idea who this guy is and why he's going to over the top for an eBay sale?