Hi yes she should have paid me when she made contact  before going into hospital and i too thought  at the time , well she is already on the computer so why not pay me... How ever at that time i felt sorry for her and thought depending on what was wrong with her she shouldnt have to worry about immediate payment..( stupid me)..I have now relisted the items again and put a block on her hopefully now from re-bidding ever again..I dont think she could leave me any feedback at all because she never completed the sale with payment and i think that stops any feedback being given..If she does for any reason manage to do so then i will call ebay to have it removed..