yeah the problem is that, even if you are just a CASUAL seller like me, you have to remain PROOOOFESSIONAL at all costs, even if you are being blackmailed for your own goods!   You are being accused of selling smelly goods but you can't boomerang that back on the Buyer, even if every part of your being wants to.    You are dealing with someone who has an agenda and a scheme, someone who knows the price of keeping up appearances (good feedback), even if it is really smelly underneath......