Ebay is so expensive!!

Are Ebay trying to get rid of the little sellers? I am new to selling, just trying to get rid of some stuff to help pay for decorating my house.


I was lucky enough to sell a piece of jewellery and between Ebay and Paypal, I have paid over $104 in fees, to say that I am amazed is putting it mildly.


I read the fee structure but didn't 'comprehend' just how high the fees would be.


I have also noticed that there are a lot of watchers but they don't buy is this normal?


What can I do to reduce fees and entice sellers to buy?