I just wish ebay would give sellers the same rights to give negative or neutral feedback as they do with buyers! I have met some wonderful people through ebay who have turned up when arranged for pickup or message to make a new time but then there are others who really make it difficult. Why bid if you are in a different state and it is for pick up only, why bid if you cant pick the item up within the stated time!  Buyers may always be right..............but without the seller there ain't no buyers!