Once a buyer has purchased from you have their personal email address so what is to stop you using that and emailng them direct? If a buyer has already paid and wants to change the postage to a higher value service the correct thing to do is refund their payent and re invoice with the new charge.

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It says in this book I am reading that by 2065 80% of women will be overweight.

See what a trendsetter I am?