Feeling a little like that myself. And like you I don't seel much. I buy more. I've recently had a bad experience with a buyer.

I think what buyers need to realise is that for many of us, we are not businesses. I don't want to deal with unfounded complaints and being told I'm a lyer and dishonest. I just don't need it. All for a few bucks?

I'm considering doing only pickups from now on. Then if people have a problem they don't need to take it away with them. Then they can't purposely destroy it and claim it was already destroyed.

My problem is I think everyone is honest just because I am. I treat people the way I would like to be treated and I would never go out of my way to decieve anyone. Then when it does happen I get all upset. It just isn't right.

But I do agree that sellers should be able to include negative feedback for buyers. Why should it all be so one sided? I didn't even know you couldn't until a few months ago when someone refused to pay for an item they won. I went to try to put negative feedback and couldn't! I was actually shocked!