Second chance offer?

Around 2 weeks ago I sold an item to somebody and they wanted to pay via bank deposit. I am okay with that... but not when its been over a week and lack of communication from the buyer.

Anyway, I have been given a deposit reference number, but not being told who this buyer banks with. Its probably been 8 business days now since buyer has claimed to have deposited the money. I am unsure if it was done in a bank or transfer online.
Would anyone else go for a second chance offer after waiting this long for money to get to your own bank account, or am I just being impatient??

- I have NEVER waited this long for money to get into my bank before!