foxy, your right, sounded odd to me as well especially when I was given the phone number and texted only to have someone text back saying you have the wrong number.

But she just texted the right number with one digit changed (obviously a mistake) and has said I can deliver to their home tomorrow and they have cash instead. 

If I don't return here tomorrow night, send out the cavalry. 

That's not a bad idea, meeting at their bank. I'll remember that for another similar circumstance.

am, I think you are spot on, initially she didn't want anyone at the home and didn't want to go to mine alone.

I'll post result tomorrow.