No. They were very friendly emails. The buyer had purchased an item of clothing without using the measurements I had included in the listing. She was a very nice person but pretty dim and I didn't want a defect so I was very gentle and accommodating with her. I gave her her money back via PayPal (send money) not through the normal refund channel. No doubt I did something wrong. But she has her money back. She's happy and left me glowing feedback. I have the garment back and all's well. I wouldn't mind betting eBay are trying to make something more out of it.