thanks greencat, after reading your post I thought I would actually do an eBay search for 'shapewear' so I could get an idea of exactly what shapewear is . . . . . and I must say I blushed when I saw the results!  OMG, my advice to the OP is to ask for a photo to show that the shapewear is too big and therefore loose on the buyer . . . . LOL

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if the internet was around when I was a young lad I would have gone blind with shapewear items like this on eBay