Then how do you handle things when a buyer is waiting for another one of your auction items to bid on 5-6 days after they won their first auction with you phorum-junkie?   I don't bother contacting the seller for any reason until I've finished my buying session with them, no matter how many days in between items coming up, so I'd see you as harrassing me going by what you say above, and if you launched a dispute aganst me after only 4 days you'd p1ss me so badly I'd be contacting Ebay over your harrassment.   If all your items were listed as BINs I'd have no problem with paying immediately, but how can anyone do that when they're bidding on multiple listings stretching out days apart?   I don't consider myself to be answerable to any Ebay seller when my payment is held up due to their own auction listing frequencies.

Thank you so much for posting here moorna12, much appreciated 🙂