Just to clarify, it wasn't the seller who said they wore the bra for several hours, I spotted that when I looked for reviews on the bra on other sites.

Anyway I guess I am in a lose-lose situation, but I am really disappointed that I am forced to refund when it looks like this person is buying 'on spec' at a significant cost to the seller.

I am so tempted to ask for a photo of her wearing it haha, but that would be creepy.