This is the first time you have come to the boards for help....how does this make us unhelpful and unfriendly?

I have had the same message a few times but I have always clicked on the option again immediately and it has come good.

Starting with the usual fixes for ebay problems......have you tried clearing cookies and cache and rebooting your computer?

If you are using IE change to Chrome or Firefox as ebay is no longer supporting IE.   And lastly, use an adblocker on your browser...this will help with the speeed of loading pages if nothing else.