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on 03-04-2014 03:07 AM
About 30 years ago I lived in a share house and one of my housemates was a pre-op transsexual. She was born a male and, at that time candidates for sexual reassignment surgery were required to live as their preferred gender for at least 12 months prior to surgery.
She identified herself as female and requested we treat her as such. Which we did.
Life was not easy for her in the 80s. I expect life is not easy for transsexuals now. It is very easy to make jokes at the expense of transsexuals, but I would like to remind those who do that transsexuals are people and deserve to be treated with respect.
In the 70s and 80s it was considered socially acceptable to make jokes about dagos and wogs and abbos and homos. These jokes are socially unacceptable now. It takes a lot of courage for a person to have gender reassignment surgery, and it eludes me why, in the 21st century, we choose to denigrate these people rather than celebrate their courage.
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on 03-04-2014 05:06 AM
About 7 years ago, a male high school student came back from the Xmas school holidays dressed as a female and was in the 12 month living-as-a-female stage. The toilet issue was the greatest concern. Mainly due to his/her not liking being classed as "disabled".
I am not sure what was the outcome. But the situation went pretty high up within the Department.
DEB
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on 03-04-2014 05:18 AM
Imagine the Public Conveniences door signs. The ones with words are hard enough; let alone the symbolic ones.
HIM; HER; DISABLED; HIM2HER; HER2HIM;
Frankly, in the past, I've used the Mens due to the lengthy queues for the Ladies. It was just a relief.
DEB
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on 03-04-2014 07:11 AM
Gotta love ......the hypocritical nanny state judges in action and as witnessed from the judgement quoted in the OP
"Norrie's sex remained ambiguous so that it would be to record misinformation in the register to classify her as male or female," a judgment summary reads.
absolutely LMAO
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on 03-04-2014 08:17 AM
@2106greencat wrote:What public 'rest room' do they use ?? Legally ??
Just wondering...........
It's not illegal to use a rest room not of your gender. Anyone can use any toilet.
But either way, all businesses and property now have unisex toilets in their accessible WCs. And more businesses are opting for standard unisex toilets generally.
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on 03-04-2014 11:49 AM
I don't see what the problem is? Perhaps those hung up on other's genetalia and gender need to broaden their horizons. Which toilet to use is such a minor thing compared to the stigma attached to those who are either transexual or intersex.
"There is nothing more; but I want nothing more." Christopher Hitchins
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on 05-04-2014 02:23 PM
interesting wonder what this has cost us and what it will cost in the future as all forms etc have to be changed just to please one person
wonder if this non gender person works or are we all paying for their life style my guess is we are paying for their lifestyle
so what do you call this person as how do you address them it/him/her/she/he/shim/ or what?
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on 05-04-2014 02:29 PM
@sarah308 wrote:interesting wonder what this has cost us and what it will cost in the future as all forms etc have to be changed just to please one person
wonder if this non gender person works or are we all paying for their life style my guess is we are paying for their lifestyle
so what do you call this person as how do you address them it/him/her/she/he/shim/ or what?
address them according to their wishes. the whims of bigots.. how much do they cost us ?
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05-04-2014 02:31 PM - edited 05-04-2014 02:33 PM
@lakeland27 wrote:
@sarah308 wrote:interesting wonder what this has cost us and what it will cost in the future as all forms etc have to be changed just to please one person
wonder if this non gender person works or are we all paying for their life style my guess is we are paying for their lifestyle
so what do you call this person as how do you address them it/him/her/she/he/shim/ or what?
address them according to their wishes. the whims of bigots.. how much do they cost us ?
r u saying that you are a bigot and you cost us .. is that right and i am reading that correctly am i not yes i am
you are so adorable for a cuddly leftie
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on 05-04-2014 02:33 PM
Good for him.
Its doesnt affect me either way.