I am not a seller, but it probably has to do with Managed Payments, and not with the buyer. 

Are you on managed payments?

If so it wont go into your paypal account, it will sit in Ebay, until your next schedule transfer to the bank.

You are on managed payments and appear to be a new seller, as such under managed  payments your funds will be on  hold for 30 days.

Note your payments will no longer go to paypal, so look in your ebay payments

Am I the only one offended by eBay's grabbing the buyers money and telling sellers "Trust us  you have been paid" go ahead and send the item now but with no sign of the money in our accounts . And then several days later they own up to having received the money and will send it on to us minus their fees of course in a day or so.

Further to this they are charging us the paypal 3.5% even though the money doesn't go to paypal at all but eventually , to our bank account perhaps 5 or 6 days after the payment was made.

Am I just being picky about this or do others think even by eBay standards this is over the top.