Did you follow the proper eBay process?

If not, other members can't help you and you will not be covered by eBay

Did you open a dispute? 

Have you checked the original funding source for the refund?

Now you have posted the other stuff in your other thread

It does not look like you opened and followed through with an item not as described dispute and you have simply done 'what the seller said' instead  is that correct?

Seller is registered in China and has questionable feedback and selling garbage with photos lifted from other websites

And another huge red flag is they asked you to change your neg feedback to get a refund

That is not how it works

Such as a seller had no intention of refunding you and you are not covered by eBay if you do your own thing 

The tracking number you've given may need investigation as it's showing as "delivery expected on 23rd January"   but is still showing as 'running late', not yet delivered.

Was it being  sent  to a dropshipping warehouse in Australia ?

mohko-9097

If you look  at the tracking, you'll see at the bottom of the page

Was the return  started within 30 days of receiving the item ?

As I can see your feedback is 'within the last 6 months'

Did you expect to receive genuine HD Handlebars, if so that is not what you bought. even if you followed ebays correct return process, refunds are not applicable until  the item is actually received by the seller.

The seller has contacted me to remove a bad review and he will refund it, should I listen to him or eBay?