How is a pickup arranged?

[shoppingbag*]

I wish to list some items as "pickup only" and it would seem logical to message the buyer for their phone number after the sale so we can arrange a pickup time as well as to give them my address.  However, according to an eBay policy, personal information can't be passed via their messages. So, there must be some other way.  Some advice on this would be greatly appreciated.

[kopenhagen5]

Once a buyer has purchased you can send phone numbers in messages.

There is the facility to get phone details even if a buyer is just bidding on your items.

In advanced search then find contact info. 

You get emailed their details and they get yours.

A good idea is to have pick up postcode in title as well as description.

Also have a date items need to be picked up by. Between around 7-14 days.