reply to channysmum who said at beg of this thread:
I didn't go to the link, however, it is in my opinion the responsibility lies on the person performing the deed, unless they are ordered to do so. By this I mean soldiers killing soldiers etc.
I someone uses your computer to watch kiddy porn and goes out and assualts a child is it your fault. You allowed that person to use your computer.
I will assume that you said no.
Therefore if a priest/teacher/scout leader/etc uses the premises to procure a child, why then is it the fault of the owner of the premises.
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I take challenge with your analogy sorry if I offend or rile you.
I went to a Catholic girl's high school, I am not a Catholic. My brother was also subjected to abuse from an Anglican moron, when my bro was vulnerable, trusting environ etc and I have only recently discovered this. I witnessed the aftermath of one of my close school girlfriends that was sexually molested by a Catholic priest, the nuns knew what a moron this guy was yet continued his attack and abuse on several girls. On finding my gf sobbing and shaking uncontrollably after being over at this efftards church, as instructed by the nuns, to 'assist setting up the alter for mass' I asked my gf what was the prob etc.....she told me exactly what the creep was doing....to cut a long story short I told her to always refuse to go unless 2 others went with her, she said that she had been with 2 other girls but when they got to the church rectumary that this moron instructed the other 2 girls to stay out in the church main and 'get busy' doing whatever-leaving my gf alone with him in the 'back' rooms.My gf lived with her Dad and was seperated from her Mum back then. I told her to tell her Auntie but this was refused as her aunt was a devout Catholic (which she was) and my gf was correct in her assumption that no-one close would believe her. So as innocent 13 yr olds we strategised how to keep my gf away from this slime.He used to ask when their Birthday's were too!.....not selecting any girls that had already turned 14. This creep used to 'visit' our classes on ev wednesday mornings we were in year 8, or 1st year back in 1970-and he used to smell of red wine and alcohol even at 9.00am in the mornings-he was pist as a rotten piece of flake! He looked flushed and sweaty even on a cold morning. 2 nuns used to flank him as he went from room to room 'selecting' girls..... We were all innocents-I even remember once putting up my hand, before I realised what he was doing-to volunteer to help set-up. Catholacism and rituals during mass esp fascinated me!!I was always rejected (even told twice that I would not go to Heaven because I was not worthy as I was not of the true religion and not recognised my Our Father ....etc ....etc 2 other Anglican girls and 1 Greek Orthodox in my class , we were all told to stand up and told all this **bleep**e in front of the rest of the girls, yes!!) When this creep priest went from class to class ev wednesday morning 'culling' our young flesh, I noticed how the mood changed in our class rooms and how the girls physically cringed on his arrival at both the school and more so into our room. The nuns sometimes called out to the class to turn their eyes to the front of the room and even to look upon this creep .....he usually (thick Irish accent) used to ask for a show of hands to see which girls had been to confession and which ones hadn't....yeah?! I tell no lies.
.....obviously this was some precurser for determining his flesh'selection'. He used to fondle and caress and slobber and basically sexually grope for his own satisfaction. ......I will not devulge about my bro as this is before the Royal Commission for Abuse atm.
This is NOT about computers or kiddy porn.
This is about knowing about criminal activity, lack of Duty of Care by THE OTHER WITNESSING ADULTS. .....by a known CRIM against minors IN THEIR CARE.
...and IMO and mind and soul there IS FAULT WITH THE OTHER WITNESSING ADULTS INVOLVED
footnote: the 'priest' that abused my gf died a painful, unpleasant death from liver cancer - he was an alcoholic. Good things happen sometimes.
