on โ28-04-2019 03:22 PM
on โ28-04-2019 03:31 PM
Make sure you have the box ticked in buyer requirements:
on โ28-04-2019 03:35 PM
on โ28-04-2019 03:40 PM
Personally, I would also be blocking their email address in your emails (although they may of course have more than the email address they use for PayPal) and if you are both Facebook,block them there too
on โ28-04-2019 03:42 PM
on โ28-04-2019 03:43 PM
Why oh why did you leave the followup feedback?
I have a feeling ebay will not remove the origina feedback now.....they usually do it immediately if they are going to do it.
The followup makes you look very silly and lends weight to the buyer's original feedback.
Why keep coming here for advice if you are just going to blunder on anyway?
on โ28-04-2019 04:39 PM
on โ28-04-2019 05:26 PM
@kitty-kat-kollection wrote:
Ebay said once the dispute time has elapsed, they will close it in my favour and remove the feedback. This will (it WILL) happen on 1 May. I just wanted anyone who saw it to know in the meantime.
Anecdotally, members who have left follow-up feedback on negs have found that eBay tend to be reluctant to remove the neg, even if they have said they would before the follow-up was left.
I guess you realise that nobody apart from yourself and the buyer can see the buyer's ID, so the feedback remarks are pretty much along the lines of "he said, she said"..........
on โ28-04-2019 05:31 PM
โ28-04-2019 06:08 PM - edited โ28-04-2019 06:12 PM
Just curious
How much time have you spent engaging the buyer mutiple times?
How much time have you spent engaging with eBay?
How much time have you spent posting on the boards?
How much more time will you spend making sure the neg is removed?
How much time will you spend worrying that the buyer may open a case with the Pal?
How much time will you spend worrying that buyer may be able to engage in malicious buying with a different ID or help from a friend?
How long would it take to type "Sorry to hear you are unhappy with your item.Please return for a full refund"?
I wonder if all this angst may have been avoided...it's a 20 buck item...not all transactions will go smoothly but can be easily handled if you take personal feelings out of the equation...jmo...works for me.