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A kind of strange - feeling -story......

 

A young lady I know, (via a very dear friend of mine)  has announced she is pregnant.

She is 27yrs old and has one child aged around 7yrs old. 

Proudly a single mum, and she is doing the best she can.

 

Nothing to shirk at there....... all good.

 

 

Ok, here is where the shirking comes in.....

 

She advertised on a *baby making website* to get pregnant.

 

She lists herslef as wanting to get pregnant, no-strings attached, baby daddy will have no hold over the baby and will not be financially responsible after successful conception!

 

THEN.....  she receives emails, sorts outs the yes/no/maybe's and then it goes on....

She meets up with the YES potentials, has *meetings*   I guess a meet and greet type scenario, and then makes a final decision after that.

 

The man she chose, was 53!

53!!!!!!!   Man Surprised

 

My thoughts here, are:   Is this a way for older men/women to get their rocks off with much younger women/men?
I dont know, but I feel a bit erky about this sort of *business*. 


Perhaps its me not being open-minded enough to accept the situation of current/future breeding rights, and while both parties were consentual, does it make it right?

I didnt even know these sorts of websites even exsisted... talk about big business!!

That being said.... my other very real gripe about this is that Centrelink will be supporting this child too! That DOES *P* ME OFF!
This was planned and not by accident.

 

 

am I just getting old and out of touch with the real world now, or is too much to expect for a child to be conveived, where possible, from love...  ?!?!?

 

Oh and P/S, she is also a submissive in a dom/sub relationship with another guy who is not the baby daddy!  (he does not live with her)

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Yes Bushie, you are absolutely right... to a point, but she is on her own, has very little support family wise and she has done all this up to now, as a single parent.... I have to give her credit where credit is due.
She doesnt get child support from daddy (1) as he is not in the picture either... although that was a relationship at one stage. Im not sure of the circumstances with that one, exactly.

 

However, that being said now, I also have to wonder.......

 

Her son is around 7 or 8 yrs old. I think centrelink cuts off the single parent pension when the youngest child turns 8yrs old, so I cant help wondering if this is perhaps a way of staying financial  ?!?

 

Anyway, I hope to goodness that this poor little baby, come into this world in good health.
I wonder how she would feel if her children grew up to be a sperm daddy for a 27yr old when they turn 53? 
or if new baby is a girl, how she would feel about her being a submissive, and sleeping with men old enough to be her grandfather!

The mind boggles!

 

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Anyone can make one mistake or find themselves on their own raising children.

They deserve some support for the original child/children but there is no way the taxpayer should be expected to pay for any more children born when the girl has no husband/permanent partner.

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I absolutley agree Lyndal......
especially in cases like this, and also cases of where woman are having babies to the same man 3 or 4 times, yet they are *single parent*

pfft.... its not rocket science, I really dont know why centrelink isnt harsher on these folk... but then at the end of the day, it would be the children who would suffer, and I dont want to see that either... Its a no win vicious circle isnt it!

Anyway, Whats done is done!

It still makes my skin crawl knowing that this sort of thing is not only going on, but appears to be legal! 

 

 

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@janeababe wrote:

 

 

However, that being said now, I also have to wonder.......

 

Her son is around 7 or 8 yrs old. I think centrelink cuts off the single parent pension when the youngest child turns 8yrs old, so I cant help wondering if this is perhaps a way of staying financial  ?!?

 

 


Being the extremely cynical person that I am, I think you've hit the nail on the head.
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Age is just a number I,m in my 40s and still hook up with 20s lol. My daughter is in her 20s and has a kid with a

guy in his late 40s. It's the person not the number but she!s not with him now she is with a guy who just had his 21 st and they have a

little one.

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