My niece was pregnant with her second child and she showed no signs and had no idea up until she went to hospital with bad tummy pains and gave birth to a baby boy. She had terrible PND but throwing the baby down a drain did not cross her mind. I had sever PND with my second child and was a mess but throwing the baby down a drain did not cross my mind. No excuses imo
I'm guessing PND means "pregnancy and delivery" no idea what "imo" means. I wasn't making excuses though, and it's hard to wrap my mind around anyone doing this, but i suppose if someone was drugged out enough and not aware of their options, it's possible. Therefore, it takes all kinds. Humanity is capable of so much love, but to the oppisite extreeme, humanity is capable of so much hate or indifrence as well. Like in the song, "this is not a black and white world" its certainly not a fair world, and there seems to be no measuring stick to hold up against it.
Why is it some have it so easy, while others have it so hard, why is it that some throw away the gift of a child while others who can't have such a gift would litterally cut off an arm and a leg for that ability? Way of the world, sad fact of life. I've known some bad mothers, women who just dreaded being bothered with caring for their child, too young, they blame the child. just really messed up.
Then theres the mothers who put their children ahead of themselves as if they had no choice, on impulse, those who would face certain death themselves before putting even their grown children in danger. Then theres the gray areas. I've heard of this kind of thing before, maybe a few times, just don't surprize me is all, but then i am in my mid 40s, not much does anymore.
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