on โ06-05-2025 01:27 PM
I have a seller that is harassing me sending me multiple messages a day. I've tried messaging them back to ask them to stop, I've tried blocking them, I've sent eBay messages that the blocking is not working. How do I stop this happening? Why won't eBay allow me to block a seller?
โ06-05-2025 04:07 PM - edited โ06-05-2025 04:08 PM
Yes, $66 is low value to me. I live and work regionally, and for me to take time away from work to go and do a return at the post office is increasing the loss I've already incurred. I'd lose more than $66. It's not all about money. It's very materialistic to only consider money. I've wasted time, fuel, etc, to have this item that doesn't meet the seller's description. I'm negative towards the transaction because of the time, not the money. I won't be bribed. I have not received money back
on โ06-05-2025 04:23 PM
Did you open and follow through with the dispute, not asking to return, an actual item not as described dispute
You do not have to be bribed
Report the feedback extortion
Delete the seller's messages without reading them
The seller gets no say, they cannot say you have to send the item back
It is not as described, they are registered in China so cannot provide a return label (as has been said already)
don't buy from dodgy sellers registered in China and you will avoid such issues. They have so many negs warning people not to deal with them
You do not need to lose anything to get your money back
But the comment you left makes it sound like you have
on โ06-05-2025 04:46 PM
@lezned-toycollector wrote:Unless the seller provides that postage label, you don't have to return anything.
That's incorrect lezned, if the seller is overseas they cannot issue a return label, and it's up to the buyer to send the item back, once the seller receives the item then they should do a full refund including the return postage.
on โ06-05-2025 07:07 PM
You're allowed to leave negative feedback.
The seller shouldn't be messaging you daily - Report and / or Ignore them
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Your feedback left:
"Itโll work, but quality is pretty average"
Indicates that the item could be used and is possibly already fitted and in use !
But you sought some compensation for it not being in as good condition as you expected.
Your follow up feedback indicates that you received compensation in the form of a full refund
"At that point, I got offered a full refund. But my negative feedback is still negative based on the process of trying to get the issue resolved and them wasting my time"
And as for this:
" It's not all about money. It's very materialistic to only consider money"
Seriously ?
on โ06-05-2025 08:34 PM
We'll you'd be wrong. I was being diplomatic in words used and when it comes to compensation, they approached me, I did not approach them. I said to refund me straight away, they chose not to and offered a 25% return of funds. I ignored the replies for a few days, until I reiterated that a full refund would be ok as not useable, but no, 25% stuck. I told them to leave me alone after a few more days of them hassling me. Then I got a full refund offer IF I remove the negative feedback, but I'm already annoyed at this stage, so I don't care about money and never have, still getting negative feedback so no deal. I have not accepted any refund as all options to do so end up with me either;
1) Removing negative feedback which compromises the feedback process and they get a good score for poor product and poor service. You're ruining eBay if you do this
2) I have to send back the item which involves me incurring additional expense to end up at square 1, why would any logically thinking person do this? Why would you give away money for no reason.
Please come on, try and pick a hole in it.
on โ07-05-2025 06:45 AM
If you remove the negative feedback, then they will refund you? I don't believe it (but the emails would stop).